Tuesday, June 18, 2002

This one comes from my roommate who thought this would be a nice addition to the blog...so here's to you roomie!

Thought you might like to post this article on your weblog. Perhaps encourage some of your readers to email Falwell and tell him to get a life or come out of the closet. This situation frustrates me on so many different levels. The first, and most obvious, is the hatred demonstrated towards homosexual. The second is this: Why do people assume kids are retarded and cannot think for themselves? Why avoid putting an issue in front of them and allowing them the opportunity to make their own decisions? Could it be because Jerry Falwell and the pricks at www.traditionalvalues.org are afraid that kids will choose to be open minded and decide that homosexuality is not wrong?

NEW YORK (AP) -- Despite a staggering 100,000 e-mails and phone calls in protest, Nickelodeon will telecast a special for children about same-sex parents on Tuesday night.

The half-hour report, produced by Linda Ellerbee and featuring Rosie O'Donnell, includes comments from the Rev. Jerry Falwell -- who later joined conservative activists in urging Nickelodeon not to air it.

The Washington-based Traditional Values Coalition has spearheaded the campaign against "Nick News Special Edition: My Family is Different," sight unseen. There were so many e-mails Nickelodeon had to set up a separate address to avoid a computer crash.

"It is a cover for promoting homosexuality for kids," said Andrea Lafferty, the coalition's executive director.

Nickelodeon said that's not so. Ellerbee, in the show's introduction, says, "The following program is about tolerance ... It is not about sex. It does not tell you what to think."

Ellerbee, who won a Peabody Award for a Nickelodeon special that delicately dissected the Monica Lewinsky scandal for children, said she conceived of this show upon reading that the word "fag" had become the most common schoolyard epithet.

O'Donnell's public acknowledgement that she is a lesbian put the subject in the news, Ellerbee said.

The program, which airs at 9 p.m. EDT, is largely a discussion. Although it also features a gay school principal and a gay New York City firefighter who is a father of three, children are the focus.

Some children with gay parents talk about feeling uncomfortable about what other kids say in school. Other children discuss their objection to homosexuality.

"It is never a wrong time to talk about hate," Ellerbee said. "It's just not. That's all our show is about. It is not in any way about the homosexual lifestyle. It's not even introducing the subject to most kids. They know. But quite frankly, many of them know it from a hate standpoint without even knowing what they're talking about."

But Lafferty said, "They keep saying it is not about sexuality. It is about sexuality."

Parents are upset because many thought they never had to worry about Nickelodeon's content, she said.

"They have been led to believe that Nick is a safe harbor," she said. "Now they've been exposed. The skirt has been lifted and Nick has been exposed."

Lafferty was asked by Nickelodeon if the Traditional Values Coalition would recommend children to be included in the special. She refused.

Falwell agreed to be interviewed, however, and is quoted expressing his opposition to homosexuality on Christian grounds. He also said it's important to respect other points of view and not react with violence.

He said later, in an interview with The Associated Press, that he is sorry Nickelodeon feels the need to "indoctrinate" children on homosexuality.

"Nickelodeon should stay away from endorsing lifestyles that are generally not accepted by the American public," Falwell said. "It turns a children's network into something parents feel a responsibility to edit and carefully filter."

Asked how he reconciled his participation in the show with a call not to air it, Falwell said, "I've often said I would preach in hell if they promised to let me out."

Ellerbee said she was disappointed by Falwell's later comments.

Most of Ellerbee's Nick News programs air at 8:30 p.m. This show has been pushed back a half hour -- to a time when the network usually runs old sitcoms -- because of its sensitivity, said Herb Scannell, Nickelodeon's chief executive.

Lafferty claimed advertisers wouldn't touch the show; Scannell said the plan was always to be commercial-free. Some other Ellerbee shows, including the Clinton discussion and one about AIDS, also contained no ads.

Scannell said he had no hesitation about airing the special.

"I thought it was in a territory that we've been before, in terms of looking at the world from a kid's point of view," he said. "The whole philosophy of Nick is that it's tough to be a kid in an adult world."

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Now time for my comments...long pause...wow, I don't have any comments. Not yet at least. I guess I will have to watch the program and make my determinations from there. Nickelodeon has a strong background of doing programming that handles such issues on a level that kids can understand and comprehend the message. I hope they do the same here.

I have to agree with my roommate who said that parents don't think that their kids can think for themselves. I am reminded of a middle school in Jacksonville, Florida, (where I formerly lived) that was to visit Disney World on the same day as the unofficial "Gay Day" (for the record, "Gay Day at Disney" is not an official event sponsored by the Disney...it is generally observed on the first weekend in June). The parents insisted that the school CANCEL the trip to Disney rather than have their children attend on Gay Day. The children (yes, the children) stood up for themselves and the gay community and basically said, "We know what the deal is. We're going to have gay people in our lives and they do exist. Let us go and have fun." One little girl even said that we're supposed to like and respect the differences in each other so why aren't we supposed to like and respect them.

Sometimes kids surprise you.
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