Well, I'm REALLY glad I didn't ask the mutual friend of BILL (not Paul, Bill....I confused him with the name of a law firm I used to work with when I was a legal recruiter as their names are rather similar)...turns out he's already seeing someone....OUR MUTUAL FRIEND!

D'oh!

Anyway, I did put to use the skills I acquired as a legal recruiter and looked Bill up in the Martindale registry. Scary the stuff you can find with that....like email addresses. And NO! I'm not going to use it! Stalker no more! But I will say for a man who is 40 (or approaching) he looks pretty damn good... :)