Update to the Sunday post...I wasn't able to get Javier on the phone so I dropped him an email inquiring to see if he would like to head upstate this weekend and if not, I would like to spend time with him in the city this weekend and confessed that I've enjoyed the time that he and I have spent together and how I look forward to getting to know him better...and...oy vey...what's come over me.

Someone -- QUICK! -- bitch slap me now!